One member of The Society of Evangelical Arminians: “Here is what happens: We see that Scripture indicates it is God’s will for people to obey Him, believe in Him, etc. But we know that God’s will is not always done. The Calvinist looks at this and says, ‘God must therefore be causing those who do not do His will, to not do so, thereby making it all, actually, His will.’ The Arminian looks at it and says, ‘Obviously God has allowed for His will to be defied, and in that way, His will is being done, even when His will is defied (by allowance), though it is most fully done when people (with free will) actually do His ideal will.’ In my opinion, the Calvinist view is bizarre and nonsensical (causing people to not do His will, and in that way, making it His will after all), while the Arminian view is natural and coherent (in the case of someone who has power to enforce His will, His will is done either by permission or by cooperation; of course, God will enforce His will in many things, but we are talking about people entering into relationship with Him). That’s the way it normally works in relationships.”
Another member of The Society of Evangelical Arminians: “Calvinists believe that God’s will is always done, never thwarted (in reference to God’s secret will or sovereign will, or ‘total plan’ that encompasses every event that occurs). So they would say based on their belief in exhaustive determinism (the secret plan, the sovereign plan of God that predetermines all events), that God’s ‘will is’ never thwarted in any way. I think we need to make a distinction between God’s unilateral actions (i.e. when God alone is acting, in such cases, no one stops Him or thwarts His purpose or plan, and you will note that Calvinists often cite Bible passages that are, in fact, speaking of when God acts unilaterally, in which case, His purpose or desire is never thwarted). On the other hand, there are also cases where God has a plan or desire for something that involves the actions of human persons, and these actions are freely chosen actions as well (bilateral actions, i.e. when God is acting and calls, or commands or desires people to do something, people do not always obey their call or obey His commands or do what God desires to be done, so in this sense, God’s plans or desires, or ‘will’ can be thwarted). Now this may seem similar to the Calvinist’s ‘two wills,’ but it is very different. With the Calvinist’s two wills, His will is always done, His plans never thwarted, ever, no exceptions (so the Calvinist’s two wills concept is misleading, as the will of prescription or command is a subset of, or part of, or subsumed under, the secret and total will). On the other hand, with the distinction that I am making here: God’s purposes that involve His own unilateral actions are never thwarted while God’s purposes that involve bilateral actions, specifically including the freely chosen actions of men, can and are sometimes thwarted (an important example being that God desires the salvation of all men, and yet some men will continually and repeatedly reject God’s purpose, a key example of this is the actions of the Israelites in the Old Testament who repeatedly violated God’s will, thwarted His plan for them that they be faithful to Him and the covenants He made with them). It is not ‘failure’ or ‘weakness’ of God’s part if purposes involving bilateral actions don’t always go the way that He wants, because in these instances, the persons failing, the persons not doing the right thing are always human persons and never God (which is why the Bible speaks of Him being faithful when we are not faithful, a clear Bible passage making this point). Also, if God sovereignly decides, and then brings about a world and a human nature (by creating the world the way that it is, and creating human nature with the capacity to make choices both obedient and disobedient to God’s will) that can and does sometimes freely choose to go against His will, then human sin is not due to weakness in God, nor is it ‘failure’ on the part of God. Instead, it is part of God’s design that this can happen, and when it does happen, it is our responsibility, not God’s, when we do the wrong thing (the responsibility principle is that we are responsible for what we do, for what we had control over, e.g., I may not control the weather but I am responsible for driving unsafely during certain weather conditions and causing an accident).”