On the video for Q&A with Reporters (4th one, on the bottom of the page, at the 14:10 mark), a female reporter (Kathy Grossman of USA Today) takes Calvinist, John Piper, to task on his view of God’s sovereignty:
Kathy Grossman, USA Today: “I’d like to ask Rev. Piper if you could please go back to your opening comments about what you would tell the children who lost their parents, because I must have misunderstood you. If I lost a spouse and I took my child to your church and I heard you say those things, I would take my child out and never come back. So, clearly I misunderstood.”
John Piper: “Not necessarily.”
Kathy Grossman, USA Today: “It seemed to me that you said, that the answer to these children was, ‘Look at what the great opportunities are that God gives you now for your life,’ and I think that doesn’t actually answer the question that you raised.”
John Piper: “No, that is not what I said. He didn’t give them opportunities. What He did was govern all things at the moment when their parents died. So if they asked me, ‘So where was God?’, or ‘Did God have the ability to stop my daddy’s death?,’ I would say that He did have that ability and He didn’t use it, and then they would say, ‘So you’re saying God took my daddy?’ I would say, ‘God was wise, loving and good towards you when He did not stop them.’ I’m trying to avoid words….”
Kathy Grossman, USA Today: “I’m not sure I get, though, how that answers the question.”
John Piper: “Yeah, ok, that’s stage one. Then, if they say, ‘I don’t think that’s helpful to tell me that. That sounds very unloving of God.’ I would say, ‘But if you deny that, then what you’re denying is that right now, the help that you need to handle your difficulties given to you by the loss of your Dad, the difficulty you’re facing, you were facing marriage, you were facing job, you were facing cancer, these difficulties, the very God, who you let be sovereign at 911, that sovereignty is the very thing that will give you stability and strength and hope right now. That’s the gist of it.”
Kathy Grossman, USA Today: “How can that person count on that? Since they saw that it didn’t….”
John Piper: “Because whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. In other words, if I get shot tomorrow, if I walk out of here, and somebody didn’t like what I said and they shoot me dead, God was totally in charge, of that, and that would be the best thing that could happen to me.”