Question: Do Calvinists really ever consider themselves as having been “children of wrath,” prior to coming to Christ?
Answer: Most Calvinists will insist that they were never actually headed to Hell, at any point, given their presumption to an Unconditional Election. Therefore, from the Calvinist standpoint, they were never on the path to wrath, and never along the wide road to destruction. It seems, then, that a Calvinist would have to defer to the “Revealed Will” vs. “Secret Will,” in order to explain how they were once “children of wrath, even as the rest,” though not really, since all the while they were “His people” (in the Calvinist sense).